Where do you see yourself?

“Where do you see yourself in five years?” “How about in 10?”

These were always the sorts of questions that I dreaded, the ones that scared the hell out of me in job interviews. And I always admire those who have mapped out their goals and seem to know how it will all play out. I can’t always picture it.

One thing’s for sure – we will all want our finances to be in better shape than they are today. If running our money is like running a bath, we want to make sure that it’s filling up, not draining. Have a look:

 

Can you see yourself enjoying that bath? Seeing future versions of ourselves is tough, which makes saving and investing for the future all the more difficult. It’s like giving away money to someone you don’t know! Researchers have had some success in helping people make more future-oriented choices when they are able to interact with computer-generated images of their older selves.

Setting goals and working towards them also helps you focus on the future. But for those of us who have difficulty seeing it, I’ve often found it easier to visualise the process of getting there. This has been particularly helpful when I’m preparing to give a seminar or perform my music – it’s like rehearsing in my mind. Not so much fantasising about enjoying that bath, but rather on visualising the bath not leaking and steadily filling up.

Sorted’s net worth calculator helps you see the future, too – 5 and 15 years ahead, to be precise. One of my favourite things about it is a tiny tick box marked ‘Plan for future years’. Ticking it lets you figure out what financial shape you’ll be in down the line. And if you play with the numbers a bit, you can see where setting aside your dollars today will help your future self (and of course those around you) the most.

Even if you have difficulty picturing yourself so many years on.

money wizard

Pssst. Your kid’s a whiz with money.

money wizardIt’s all happening so fast. If there are kids in your life, you’ll know exactly what I mean – you just blink and suddenly they’re tweens going on 20.

Now a new joint study in the UK from the Money Advice Service and Cambridge University shows that kids’ attitudes and approaches to money get formed earlier than previously thought – by age 7!

Those absorbing brains are taking in money matters more than we realised, and the critical role of parents and early educators is more in the spotlight than ever.

By age 7, most children grasp the value of money, understand that money can be exchanged for stuff and get what it means to earn an income. They are capable of planning ahead, delaying a decision and understanding that some choices cannot be reversed.

All of this, however, does not mean you should run your 4 year old through the virtues of compound interest or the inner workings of the capital markets. The study points out that children set their habits through the attitudes and behaviours that we model for them.

So maybe we should be taking them grocery shopping more and explaining our everyday choices. Do not underestimate your influence, the study says.

But if the children in your life are above that tender age of 7, how can you find ways to relate to the money personality they’ve already developed?

At Sorted, with the help of a clinical psychologist, we’ve identified 16 different money styles that children can have. We’ve put them into a fun website to help kids find theirs and have a look at their friends’ styles, too.

My Money Style is a newly developed online tool for tweens, based on their personalities and the values they have. Do you have a money magician at home? Or a budget boss in class? After these quick 21 questions, you’ll find out.

For each money style, there are also pointers for parents and teachers on how to interact with that kind of kid. So they find out more about themselves, and you’ll figure out ways to connect with your little cash captain.

pohutukawa

Just 119 sleeps to go…

pohutukawaI bet I speak for most of us when I say that we could all use an extra pay at Christmastime. Who wouldn’t?

While not being able to dole an extra pay out to everyone, there is something I can point out: if you’re paid fortnightly, there are a couple months each year when youdo get an extra pay.

Since there are 26 fortnights a year, not just 24, those two extra pays must fall somewhere during the year, and there’s usually one in the run up to Christmas. If you’re getting paid tomorrow, for instance, that’s three for August. If you get paid next week, looks like your three will come in October.

Now many household bills are monthly, so there should definitely be some surplus in those months when the extra fortnightly pay rolls in. That’s perfect for re-routing that money towards your holiday fund.

For those of us paid monthly, we’ll just have to content ourselves with trying to save a bit more during the slightly shorter months of September and November. (Too bad February doesn’t fall in the spring.)

The longer days are coming…

‘Christmas? Aaaargh!’ That’s the reaction I got from one of our team when I told her I was writing a holiday-planning post this week. It feels like we’re not even over winter yet; forget about getting ready for summer!

But it will come around before you know it.

To help with the forward thinking, Sorted has its event planner, which is fit for purpose. It lets you itemise all the main things you’ll be spending on and see how they track to budget. You can include everything you’ll need: presents, decorations, the tree, travel, food, drink – whatever your holiday tradition.

Working backwards, with less time available

Now eight weeks ago, in a post to get our Christmas planning underway, I fired up Sorted’s savings calculator and hung up some targets for us all to hit, which looked like this:

If you’d like this much for the holidays by 15 December… … aim to set aside this much each week:

$500

$21

$700

$30

$1,000

$42

$1,200

$51

$1,500

$64

 

Now all is not lost if you didn’t get started way back then – there’s still time. But here’s what the numbers look like now:

If you’d like this much for the holidays by 15 December… … aim to set aside this much each week:

$500

$32

$700

$45

$1,000

$64

$1,200

$77

$1,500

$96

 

As you can see, those numbers are creeping up. Starting to save $64 a week 8 weeks ago would have given us $1,500 – if we started now it would only come out to $1,000. That being said, it’s certainly not too late to set up an automatic payment into an online savings account. These days it takes all of 15 minutes to set up.

Money gets spent sooner or later – the question is whether it will be when we really want it to or whether it will slip through our fingers before then. Timing is everything.

And the sooner we start, the more chance we’ll have of avoiding dumb debt when the holidays are here. Let’s give our credit cards a rest this Christmas, shall we?

Now that’s something worth aspiring to.

boom

Tick, tick, boom too

boomFour years ago, on 16 December, a family put almost an entire house’s worth of stuff on tick.

It was all for just $150 a week, which must have sounded too good to be true at the time. And since it was that festive time of year, I’m sure that had something to do with it. (Hopefully it was all delivered in time for Christmas morning at least.)

There was practically a partridge in a pear tree:

  • A lounge suite
  • 32, 42, and 43-inch televisions
  • Two stereos
  • Two computers
  • A glass-top dining table and eight chairs
  • Two fridge/freezers
  • A microwave
  • A glass-top coffee table
  • A washing machine
  • One queen bed, one double bed
  • Two dressing tables and mirrors
  • And a three-quarter marble pool table

This is just another example among the many anonymous credit contracts and balance statements that I’ve been going through – examples of borrowing gone terribly wrong. (If you haven’t seen it, here’s the first tick-tick-boom post.)

When it comes to credit contracts, it’s a bit of a wild, wild West out there. It really pays to read the fine print and know what you’re getting into.

And while there’s no good data on how many of these agreements are being made, we’ve got our share of sometimes-unbelievable stories from budget advisers, who are the heroic paramedics stopping the haemorrhaging at the bottom of the financial cliffs.

What did they really sign up for?

Let’s unpack the numbers on our Christmas family. Using their house as security, they were able to borrow for $23,932 worth of goods. Like many of us who take on debt, they were probably focused on that minimum weekly payment amount: $150.

All that comes at a price, though. I’ve heard that there are furniture stores that don’t profit much from selling furniture, but rather from the finance deals they make when people buy.

Here are the family’s setup costs:

  • Loan processing fee: $450
  • Legal/registration: $540

And then there was also a ‘payment protection plan’, which is basically insurance that covers the lender but costs the borrower: in this case $2,270!

So our family was on the hook to pay back $27,192, far more than that $23,932 initial price tag.

And of course borrowing comes with an interest rate, which in this case was 25.5%. There was no interest-free period. This meant that over the loan term of 155 weeks, they were also agreeing to pay $11,551 – just in interest!

If you include the interest, the total now came to $38,743, and suddenly all those televisions and glass-top tables are starting to look really expensive. I wonder whether they would have still done the deal if they had been able to see that figure up front?

But we know the only number that was probably on display at the time: that $150 minimum payment.

But wait, it gets worse

Now these are credit horror stories, so unfortunately this situation gets worse. Christmas had come and gone when, despite making regular fortnightly automatic payments of $300, our borrowers somehow defaulted on the loan.

This meant that a default interest rate, typically 5%, was then added on. There were also fees for letters just to let them know the trouble they were in, at $40 a pop.

And this was the point when the loan started rolling backwards at times, with the balance growing instead of shrinking like all debt should. It does happen.

Tragically, by mid-May, there were repossession costs of $200, too.

What’s even more tragic is that this story did not stop there – the loan payments still had to be made and kept the family paying through a couple more Christmases almost up to last year’s.

Like I said, tragic. Spread the word: we all need to know what we’re signing up for!

birdbath

Leaky bath syndrome

birdbathManaging your money should be as easy as running a bath. Just as you would turn on the taps and make sure more water flows in than out, with your money you bring in the income and make sure more stays in than goes out.

If you forget the plug and spend more than you earn, the bath never fills.

But even if you put the plug in, you may still find that the bath never fills very high for very long. Do you find yourself wondering where your money is actually going?

If you’re like me, your bath may have sprung some leaks – your everyday spending keeps draining it and stops it from filling as high as it could.

So much month left at the end of the money

It’s practically impossible to remember what we spend money on every day. It’s even harder to keep a running tally of what we’ve spent on one kind of thing over the last week or month, like takeaways, snacks on the go, groceries or clothes. Can you remember what you spent on movies in the past month, for instance?

Little by little, our spending here and there on things we don’t even think about makes that bath leak without us noticing.

What we all need is a way to see where our money’s flowing. That’s what money tracking is all about. Tracking your spending can give you a clear picture of what’s really happening with your cash.

Four ways to follow your funds

Now there are different ways to do this. You can:

  • Carry a small notebook and write down how much you spend every time you buy something
  • Use an app to record everything you spend on your phone or tablet
  • Keep receipts and then write down your expenses at the end of each day
  • Use EFTPOS for everything you buy and then go through your statements

One trick I’ve found is downloading the last three months of statements online. I can easily sort through everything I’ve spent. Since we all tend to return to the same places over and over to shop, it’s simple to see how much I’m spending on entertainment or at the local dairy.

The key is to find a way that works for you and stick to it. You’ll be glad you did.

The more accurate your money tracking is, the sharper the picture you’ll see of where your money’s flowing. It pays not to miss a thing.

As you record each expense, group them by what they are for, like groceries, takeaways, entertainment, petrol, transport fares, clothes, gifts, household bills– whatever you typically spend money on. If you’re using a notebook or spreadsheet, make a column for each, so it’s easy to add up.

Get ready for a real eye-opener

When you do your sums, get ready for some surprises. You may even be shocked at how much you spend on some everyday things.

But wherever the surprise leaks are, that’s where your opportunities are, too.

You’ll be able to see where your money is actually flowing and make some important choices about where you want your money to go instead.

And as you plug those leaks, you’ll see your bath fill.

no strings

Found in Translation

no stringsThe most exceptional gifts are those given freely. I’m sure you’ve experienced this.

At our house a dad and kids whom we had invited for lunch turned up with the most beautiful tarakihi fillet just off a fishing boat. We promptly fired up the barbecue! Then there was the mum, who, dropping off her two kids at the birthday party we were throwing for our four year old, brought along enough lemonade for everyone.

Now neither that dad or mum had to do that – we certainly hadn’t counted on them bringing anything – and of course that’s what made their gifts all the more appreciated.

This is the true sense of ‘koha’, the Māori word and custom: a heartfelt gift, given freely, without conditions or expectation. It’s what you bring when you turn up. It’s fantastic.

Giving in this way is a part of our culture that, even if it didn’t come directly from tikanga Māori (customs), has certainly been heightened by it, and it’s something worth celebrating.

No strings

When I look at the koha I give these days, however, it can be a far cry from unconditional.

It’s almost as if I can see the strings attached to my outstretched hand as I make a gift. There are strings pulling at me out of obligation (I’m giving this because I have to). There are other strings of conditions I put on my gift (I’m giving this so you’ll do something for me). There are probably even strings of pride (I’m giving this to make myself feel good).

I’m sure I’m over-egging the whole thing, but if you look at the reasons why we hand things over these days, gift-giving is, well, a bit stringy to say the least. Why am I really giving this again?

It’s hard to keep all that other stuff out of it.

Lately I’ve come closer to hitting the mark by giving surprise gifts to the kids. This is just because no one expects them, no one demands them, and sometimes I even don’t know I’ll be giving them ahead of time. So the strings are out of the way.

And then money gets involved

Of course, as the word ‘koha’ gets used these days it can mean any of these things:

  • Gift
  • Present
  • Offering
  • Donation
  • Contribution

Traditionally koha has taken many forms, like food or precious taonga (treasure). More recently, though, it has tended to be in the form of money. And so the word is typically used in a way that means ‘donation’ or ‘contribution’.

And little by little, with each gold coin ‘donation’ I hand over for the kids to take to school, the more I seem to get away from the truest sense of koha… a gift from the heart.

Which of course is fair – there need to be ‘expected’ donations and contributions. A marae can’t run on aroha alone and it’s not fair for those in the community to cover all the costs of a hui, for example.

Koha can be food, koha can be money. It can even be the money smarts you bring to others – like helping people manage their debt or showing them how to compare KiwiSaver funds.

This Māori Language Week, let’s celebrate all that koha can be: unconditional gifts given freely.

hero boom

Tick… tick… boom.

hero boomJust the other day I came across a taxi driver who, without knowing what I do for a living, proceeded to tell me how he was juggling his repayments on his house and his taxi.

He was literally juggling – he could not make the minimum on both the house and car at the same time and was switching between them. He made a few payments to the taxi company, then the bank, struggling to recover. Unfortunately, his situation had already slid into a big mess. Not knowing all the details, I really hope it is not past the point of no return for him and his family. (Apparently his wife had just taken over the money management. Good move.)

Missing a loan repayment is a much bigger deal than it seems. How do I know this? I’ve been there. Some years ago, after going through redundancy at work,  I watched as a credit card balance spiralled out of control. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.

And when I say spiralled, I mean it spiralled up – from a just-about manageable $6,000 balance to north of $9,650 in seemingly no time.

Hold on, you might say, aren’t loan balances supposed to always go down as you pay them back, not up? How is that even possible?

Unfortunately, it is a very real scenario if you miss any repayments.  It’s a seemingly small thing that can eventually wreak havoc on your finances and cause long-term damage.

Statement shock

These days I’ve been poring over balance statements gone horribly wrong – anonymous examples of people who have got into trouble with their car loans, personal loans or hire purchase agreements.

It all starts out well. The credit experience begins with getting the new stuff, the loan granted and the repayments being made on time. No worries.

But then something unexpected happens. It always does. And without an emergency fund to fall back on, a payment gets missed.

And that’s when the fees kick in. Default fees, default interest charges, even $25 charges for each letter sent and phone call made just to let you know you are running behind. Loans can slide backwards even as much as $100 a week.

Now most of us, being eternal optimists, think we’ll just recover the next time we get paid. And we might. But the many fees out there make this more and more difficult. Over time, without help, they can bury you.  And you may end up wondering why, after months of making extra payments, you are not making so much as a dent in your loan.

When loans go backwards

Here’s one horror story I looked at: a car loan gone tragically wrong. The Holden Commodore cost $30,000 in May 2011, which must have sounded like a normal price to the buyer at the time. The repayments were high, though: $467 a fortnight.

When we’re buying, those are the only two figures we think about – the overall price and the minimum payment. Can we make that? Yet we tend to overestimate how much we can take on in the short term.

Unfortunately, there were some more numbers that got loaded on right away:

  • Establishment fee: $1,500
  • Broker fee: $1,500
  • And unbelievably, repayment insurance for the lender: $4,495

Now these were unusually high and should have been questioned. Even before the borrower made a single repayment, that loan balance swelled to $37,495!

Things started out okay for the first few months, with the borrower making those $467 payments as agreed. Then the trouble started, and when they were due to make the sixth payment, they were only able to pay $200. And the penalties hit:

  • Default fee: $10 per week
  • Default interest: 5% on top of the 19.95%

Despite the borrower following up with a payment of $667 to recover, the balance quickly grew to $37,808 anyway because of the fees and interest. Shocking, isn’t it?

Don’t hesitate to get help

Now in hindsight, the moment to get help is immediately before having to miss a payment. Many lenders will help by adjusting a loan so you can get things back on track. And budget advisers are available to help negotiate on your behalf. But for most of us, if we are left to our own devices, things will rapidly go from bad to worse.

For 19 months, our car buyer kept making payments on this loan, getting nowhere fast. Even though they made a few payments of as much as $600, they never caught up and were always in arrears. Exasperated, they could not understand why they had poured $14,270 into the loan without any result. There were probably more dents in that car than in the loan!

The balance grew as high as $37,579, and the car was almost repossessed.

In other cases it gets worse.

Had the car been repossessed, it would have no longer been worth it’s original price of $30,000. Most cars depreciate horribly. Let’s say it was worth just $12,000.

Yet the amount still owed would have been that $37,579 – so guess who would have been left holding the remaining $25,579?

Yep, the car buyer – with only the loan to show for it.

How do you recover from something like that?

Christmas

Christmas in July

Beach ChristmasOne of our Sorted team was telling me about a midwinter party she attended last week, where people brought gifts for each other (these had to be under $10) and toasted each other with mulled wine. Although it’s never been our tradition at home, it sounded brilliant, a likely antidote to the midwinter blues.

Of course, it brought to mind that the real Christmas will come around soon enough, when the days will certainly be longer – hopefully much warmer – and the presents will most likely run much higher than ten dollars. What sort of holidays will we have this year?

Let me declare it publicly: we have now officially entered planning season for the holidays. We’re at X minus six months and counting!

Now there are many planner-types out there who are more than aware of this – they’re the people who have got it so together that they book ferry rides to the South Island months ahead of time (now’s good). They’re the people who have already reserved their favourite campsites far in advance. Kudos to them.

But what if you’re not the planning type?

Take heart – it doesn’t come easy to me either. The thing to keep in mind is that our financial struggles develop our money strengths.

Saving from now, in the run-up to the big spend, will be the cheapest way to go (and help us avoid any dumb debt early next year), so we need to see how much we can set aside each week.

Hang a target to hit

Let’s start with setting a goal, a target to shoot for. If you had to fill out the following sentence, what number would you put?

‘I will have $x for the holidays by 15 December.’

Of course, I could pull a number out of thin air and, say, put down $500,000 for me, but the number needs to be realistic and achievable. (And I wouldn’t want to spend half a mil on the holidays if I had it anyway.) Many of us could use the equivalent of an extra pay around that time of year, but even smaller amounts can be a big help with travel, gift and entertainment money for the holidays.

Working backwards

Now, with the number you’ve hung as a target for you and the whānau, you can figure out how much to set aside each week. (We’ve got the perfect tool for all of this, by the way: Sorted’s savings calculator.) Here are some examples of amounts to be saving.

If you’d like this much for the holidays by 15 December… … aim to set aside this much each week, starting now.

$500

$21

$700

$30

$1,000

$42

$1,200

$51

$1,500

$64

 

So that’s how much you need to be putting into an interest-bearing account each week to reach your goal. These days accounts take all of ten minutes to set up online. Pay yourself first, make it automatic, make it happen.

No spare cash?

What if it seems like you don’t ever have any money to save? I’ve certainly been there – where entire pay cheques vanish almost immediately after each payday to cover the bills. Or worse: sliding backwards into debt, digging my way out each month, only to slip back all over again. (Some of us are still paying for last Christmas…)

The truth is, though, that if you’ve got income coming in, that money is going somewhere. And it literally pays to crunch the numbers and see where it’s going. (Need help? Call 0508 BUDGET.)

Take a hard look at your account history and credit card statements. How much is going towards alcohol, cafés, music or movies? It may be more than you think, and it may not be what you really want to be happening.

If it’s not – why not make a change and put it towards the holidays instead?

May your money plan for the holidays come into focus quickly and take hold. And come this Christmas, you’ll look back at what a gift to yourself it was to get started way back in July